Dating multiple women to find love
But, it really only happened because she found out I was seeing other people and flipped out. I should’ve been honest with her.” “This [type of dating] is definitely not for everyone,” says Monica.“It helps to be selective and seek people who are independent enough to not need lots of attention or you get sucked in to a relationship-like situation quickly.”Then there’s the slippery question that looms: I know I can casually date a few people at once, but is it possible to have strong feelings for more than one person at a time?“I could only juggle three people at a time for one-month spans before it got out of hand — someone would freak out or want commitment,” she says.“I dated someone for nine months that came out of a rotation.
So far, I've been able to balance my strong affection for multiple men, but not everyone finds this easily attainable (or even desirable). A.-based Elle, 26, says, “When I was younger, I might have liked more than one guy.Now that I'm older, I usually tend to only have strong feelings for one guy at a time.”Though dating a horde of people can feel fun and freeing, for most adventurers, it isn’t entirely sustainable.